What you have pictured there is the hardest valve to rebuild. For me anyway. The last time I tried, I gave up after an hour. Gravity totally works against you. I just replaced the valve and pretended the whole thing never happened. lol The 1" I can do. The 3/4", not so much.
You're correct on the new parts looking different. They will NOT fit the old valve.
You can try a local parts store such as, Ewing, Site-One or John Deere. I don't know if you can still get the old kit. Maybe find a Hardy catalogue online. Get the part number if you can before going down there.
This
valve should be old enough to have the old parts in it. Says '91 on it.
If you can, just swap out the valve. Trust me on that one.